Ben's Zen Guide to Wooing Womenfolk
1) Choose object of affection.
2) Agonize for hours over how to make your feelings known, make good impression.
3) Go on a date, or not.
4) Realize that your efforts have almost zero effect on the girl's eventual feelings for you. In fact, the girl has probably made most of her decisions before you've even really begun strategizing.
5) Take a nap. Love is tiring, ne?
6) Achieve your goal, or not. These things matter to the outward searching mind. The Zen mind realizes that your struggles are as the movements of a fly in syrup. Your fate has been decided, the only choice you have is how you prepare to meet that fate.
calmness comes after a storm in one's mind.
the stronger the storm is , the more calm the mind is.
transition of super micro view to super macro view.
after this transition, the terrible storm look as if a drop of water.
2) Agonize for hours over how to make your feelings known, make good impression.
3) Go on a date, or not.
4) Realize that your efforts have almost zero effect on the girl's eventual feelings for you. In fact, the girl has probably made most of her decisions before you've even really begun strategizing.
5) Take a nap. Love is tiring, ne?
6) Achieve your goal, or not. These things matter to the outward searching mind. The Zen mind realizes that your struggles are as the movements of a fly in syrup. Your fate has been decided, the only choice you have is how you prepare to meet that fate.
calmness comes after a storm in one's mind.
the stronger the storm is , the more calm the mind is.
transition of super micro view to super macro view.
after this transition, the terrible storm look as if a drop of water.
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